Remember that my views about the show are not the most negative ones out there.
I feel awful for Joss Whedon's wife. From what I've read about him and the interviews I've watched, I'm fairly certain that he rapes his wife and abuses her in various other ways. I honestly can't think of anything worse than living with a man like Joss who thinks of women like the way he portrays in his tv shows. How awful. The comment about the money was meant to be about how I personally could see no benefit from being with a man like Joss OTHER than money. Joss uses and abuses her. Probably rapes her and thinks of women as whores etc, etc. Obviously, Ms Whedon has her own reasons for staying. Fear, patriarchal concepts of love, etc. But I would argue that she gives everything and gets nothing. Money is the only concrete thing that she could possibly gain. But as I said money is worth nothing compared with self-integrity, self-esteem, love (sister/lesbian/gynaffectionate love) etc. So she still loses out. Poor woman.
I think I will go with coalescent (from whom I nicked this and just react with a ...
[And now I think I should make it clear that while I think Firefly was awful, the writer above is completely barking and the assertations she makes appear to be produced ex ano]
- The next time I bitch about Firefly
2008-03-25 07:35 pm (UTC)
I have some problems with the depiction of women in Whedon's shows too (less with "Firefly" than "Buffy"), but I think his shows are more feminist than a lot of what's out there on the airwaves.
2008-03-25 07:38 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 07:40 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 07:39 pm (UTC)
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2008-03-25 07:41 pm (UTC)
If the only type of love one can imagine or comprehend is that which comes from women, then I can understand not grokking the positive qualities that a husband might have.
(Though since "gynaffectionate" only appears in google seven times, one of which is this post, I could be misinterpreting the meaning...)
Edited at 2008-03-25 07:41 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 07:53 pm (UTC)
I love the comment where someone says something along the lines of "like you've ever known a healthy relationship between a man and a woman?" and the OP agrees cheerfully. That says more about her view on the world than the whole post did.
Edited at 2008-03-25 07:54 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 07:43 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 07:48 pm (UTC)
Seriously, I'd love to hear Joss's reaction to this. I'd love to hear what Mrs. Whedon has to say even more.
2008-03-25 08:16 pm (UTC)
Inara, Zoe, Kaylee... no discussion of River. How did she pass up the opportunity to jump on the character 'first' (modulo Fox and airing order) seen naked in a box, like slave trafficking? Cut into and objectified as a weapon? Given female mystical powers?
2008-03-25 07:48 pm (UTC)
(Anonymous)
2008-03-25 08:15 pm (UTC)
Someone's asking for a really nasty lawsuit.
2008-03-25 10:04 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 07:55 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 08:08 pm (UTC)
(Anonymous)
2008-03-26 06:33 am (UTC)
2008-03-25 08:10 pm (UTC)
2008-03-26 05:09 am (UTC)
2008-03-25 08:14 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 09:31 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 08:22 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 10:17 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 08:24 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 08:27 pm (UTC)
I concur that ... is the most coherent response possible.
2008-03-26 12:23 am (UTC)
What?
If that's how Whedon writes strong women, I think real strong women should be pretty damned insulted.
2008-03-25 08:29 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 08:54 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 08:37 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 08:48 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 09:11 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 09:12 pm (UTC)
A modest proposal
2008-03-26 01:32 am (UTC)
2008-03-25 09:23 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 10:26 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 09:29 pm (UTC)
May the Great and Powerful GynoMatrix forgive my mind and my evil, evil probative genitalia!
2008-03-29 07:56 am (UTC)
2008-03-25 09:46 pm (UTC)
2008-03-25 10:34 pm (UTC)
In this case, yes.
2008-03-25 10:12 pm (UTC)
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2008-03-25 10:32 pm (UTC)
Of course, the bias of the reviewer is immediately displayed when she writes about encountering "another lesbian feminist sister."
Memo: just because someone shares one's own gender and sexual orientation does not mean they're automatically a "sister."
The rest of the critique went downhill from there IMO. So. Has this person really been locked up in a closet since the 80s? Considering her definition of "rape" includes any heterosexual activity initiated by a male?
My brain hurts. I'm going back to my horses. Mares are alpha there, and they don't need no stinkin' rhetoric to justify being Alpha, either.
2008-03-26 12:26 am (UTC)